Still struggling with childhood trauma, a letter writer feels like they are just existing. You are not alone, says our elder. Seek out a therapist as a first step and…
When BF’s bestie is a leech
She thinks her boyfriend is being used. He’s OK with it. While money may or may not be the root of all evil, our elder agrees it’s driving a wedge…
Dreaming my life away
Everyone fantasizes—but what happens when those daydreams end in real-life disappointment? Although you may not be able to achieve perfection every time, our elder shares his tips for envisioning the…
Full of frustration and regret
No wonder, says our elder! Taking care of her thankless parents has left this 40 year-old feeling like a failure. There is hope—but self-respect is essential to moving forward. …
The lingering toll of 2020
Lockdown. Quarantine. Safer at home. Who hasn’t lost touch with friends? Our elder suggests that this high-school grad take the lead to reconnect with classmates. Read on for her ideas…
How to follow your passion
This middle-schooler loves art. But is it a realistic career? Don’t give up, advises our elder. He also offers a few tips on how to find the future that’s right…
Just say “no” to negativity
When depression fuels self-doubt, it’s hard to stop the spiral. Our elder shares her story—along with advice on how to be your own cheerleader. Dear EWC: Hi I’m 40 and…
Is my future impossible?
For this advice seeker, his family anxiety paints a bleak picture. “No one else gets to do you,” says our elder. Read on for her advice on conquering the fear…
Are they both in the wrong?
She reconnected with an old BF. Her current beau hacked her phone and found out. She’s feeling guilty. He kicked her out. Find out why our elder’s not so sure…
Friends for now or forever
How to keep FaceTime friendships alive when life goes offline? Keeping in touch requires commitment, says our elder—no matter where you connect. Dear EWC: Hi, I am in the 7th…