We have a toxic relationship and now she has dementia. Caring for people with dementia is hard, says our elder. Help your sister find the best care home your family…
How can I make true friends?
This letter writer “hates herself” and feels that she can’t get close to other people. Our elder recommends some baby steps to set her on the path to liking herself…
Can I have a career someday?
This letter writer dropped out of high school and his parents aren’t around much, but now he’s looking for a way forward. It’s never too late, says our elder. Start…
So much social anxiety
I’m even scared of going to my best friend’s birthday party! It’s all part of growing up, says our elder, but you are doing the right thing by reaching out….
His friends hate me!
My boyfriend has forgiven me for cheating but his friends still disapprove. How should we navigate this? They’re only trying to protect him, says our elder. I am sure they…
Struggling with OCD
Every little thing takes so much energy! How can I be productive? Our elder has some tips to help this letter writer achieve balance in their life. Dear EWC…
They call me a waste of space
How can I stand up to my emotionally abusive mom and stepdad? You can’t change them, says our elder, but you can overcome their parenting style. Set your own boundaries…
Ghosted by my best friend
I’ve tried everything but she still won’t speak to me. Try not to take it personally, says our elder. It will hurt for a while but it will fade over…
What happens when we die?
I can’t bear the thought of simply not existing. It’s very common to have a fear of dying, says our elder. Know that you are not alone, and work on…
A career in comics?
This letter writer is worried about their future since their only skill is drawing for comics. Our elder has some ideas on how to pursue a career as a visual…