Am I a monster? Certainly not, says our elder. You can still be a good dad. Leave yourself open to the possibility of loving your son — and stop comparing…
No, you can’t buy my daughter
My ex is showering our daughter with gifts, and I know he will expect something in return. How can I deal with this? Keep communicating with your daughter, says our…
My nephew is plain rude
He can’t even say “thank you” and I think that’s unacceptable. I’m not a fan of rudeness, says our elder. But he’s not your child to discipline. Dear EWC I…
Help me to not be a hoarder!
I’m moving into a new home with my children, and I have no idea what we need! I can’t be a hoarder like my parents. Start with the essentials, says…
Taken for granted at Christmas
My son and his fiancée didn’t give me any notice about coming to stay over the holidays. Should I tell them not to come? It’s not fair, says our elder,…
What if she hates her name?
My wife and I are expecting twins. Can I name my daughter Constantine? Our elder shares the stories behind her own children’s names to reassure him. Dear EWC My wife…
My twin daughters are clones!
It used to be cute; now it’s getting creepy. How can I get them out of this phase? You are right to encourage their individuality, says our elder. Just try…
She won’t say what’s wrong
My daughter is very private — it’s just who she is. But she’s acting up at school and she won’t tell me why. How can I get her to open…
I don’t deserve my 7 kids!
Every day I feel like a terrible mother — how can I live with feeling like I don’t deserve them? Stop feeling guilty, says our elder, and start treating yourself…
The turd in the punch bowl
My two sons don’t get along. Should I invite them all for Thanksgiving anyway? Our elder is not convinced this is a good idea. Dear EWC Our older son and…