Alcohol, a boyfriend and atheism: How do I tell my mom about my real life? Your mom was 19 once too, says our elder. Why not open up to her…
Full of frustration and regret
No wonder, says our elder! Taking care of her thankless parents has left this 40 year-old feeling like a failure. There is hope—but self-respect is essential to moving forward. …
A family afraid
An abusive father is making their life unbearable. You’re not to blame, says our elder, but you do need to seek help. Dear EWC: I am living with a narcissistic…
When you don’t fit in at home
Differences of opinion are dividing this family. People are entitled to their own views, says our elder. The key is not to let them drive us apart. Dear EWC: Sometimes…
Am I enough?
This adoptee feels empty and rejected. You’re not alone, says our elder, and you deserve love. It’s OK to ask for it. Dear EWC: Hi, I’m 19 years old and…
COVID is keeping us apart
How to handle family visits when politics and a pandemic intervene? Our elder believes it begins with honesty and respect. Dear EWC: I’m sure I’m not the only parent/grandparent in…
Where’s baby?
Does this new dad have a right to know where his son is? Not an unrealistic expectation according to our elder, who offers ideas on how to convey that to…
The family snitch?
When younger sister catches older brother stealing, should she tell mom? As difficult as it may be, our elder says, “Yes.” And do it now. Dear EWC: Hi! I’m a…
The play’s the thing
For this teen, singing and theater keep her dreams afloat. But mom’s criticism is dragging her down. Our elder reviews a few therapy options to get them back on script….
Can I ever forgive their abuse?
She’s made peace with her husband but not his enabling mom. Read on for our elder’s advice on how to let go and move forward. Dear EWC: I need help….