I thought he was kidding, but he wasn’t. Should I say something? It’s definitely time for a conversation, says our elder. This is a real teachable moment. Dear EWC I…
How can I make her listen?
A college student is frustrated that her older friend does all the talking. Our elder has some advice on how to open up the conversation. Dear EWC Hello, I’m at…
My friend is so selfish
How can I get her to listen to me? Ask her questions, observe how she interacts with others, and sit down and have a serious talk with her, says our…
Bodyshamed by my friend’s bf
I’m so upset by my best friend’s boyfriend that I want to talk to the school principal. Is it worth risking my friendship? Yes, says our elder. Nobody should talk…
My friends don’t care
I listen to them talk about their love lives but they never listen to me. Good listeners deserve to be heard too, says our elder. Here’s how you can change…
Abandoned at the ER
My neighbor left me alone at the ER – and then she got mad at me! Should I try to save this friendship? She’s shown her true colors, says our…
I’m a fake!
My personality has changed recently but I don’t want my friends to find out. Stop trying to hide, says our elder. Let your true self out and your true friends…
Should I give my “friend” $300?
I’ve only known my online friend for a month but they need a new phone. I’m going to be blunt, says our elder. Do not give this person any money!…
BF ghosted me when I got a job
Can she really be dumping me because I can’t go to a concert? Maybe she’s jealous, say our elders. Dear EWC I only have one person I consider my friend,…
The houseguest from hell
I can’t grieve, she won’t leave, and on top of that we’re paying for everything Is she taking advantage? Hell yes, says our elder. Get her out of your home…