A college student is thinking of majoring in acting but her social anxiety is a big hurdle. Why not try baby steps, suggests our elder. Try a drama group but…
I want the happily ever after
But how do I choose the right guy? Our elder has some wise words for a letter writer who worries about being “boy crazy”. Dear EWC I’m 17 years…
The reluctant lawyer
This letter writer just graduated from law school but she’s feeling too overwhelmed to start her internship. Take it step by step, says our elder. You can do this. …
My dad’s a deadbeat
My family and financial problems are draining my energy. Seek professional help, says our elder, and reframe the narrative. It’s time to show yourself some love. Dear EWC Hi….
I want to shave my head
This letter writer wants to make a statement. Why not consider some alternatives, suggests our elder. Dear EWC So, I’m 16 years old and I want to shave my…
My dark side
Selfish, insecure… How can I get over my self-hatred? It’s great that you’re paying attention to your feelings, says our elder. Consider therapy, help others, and find someone to talk…
Mistakes cripple me
I’m so scared of looking stupid – how can I get over my fear of failure? Stop trying to be perfect, says our elder. Accept your mistakes and start to…
People call me an idiot
A letter writer doubts his intelligence level – and our elder can relate. From finding outside interests to taking a creative writing class, here’s how to build your self-confidence. …
Stuck, lost and dejected
I lost everything last year and now I’m back living with my parents. How can I find my purpose? The only way is up, says our elder. See friends, make…
Straight As aren’t enough
This letter writer is a successful student but her parents make her feel like a loser. Don’t measure yourself by what other people think, says our elder. Decide your own…