My gorgeous new neighbour won’t stop flirting with my husband. How can I get her to back off? You can’t change her behaviour, says our elder. But you can ask…
Not pretty enough to be loved
A letter-writer longs to be pretty. Our elder can relate – they struggled with self-esteem issues too. Find an older woman to confide in, and start building up your confidence. …
Is it my fault Mom’s depressed?
Not at all, says our elder. You’re a good person. Here are some ideas on how you can help your mom. Dear EWC My mother seems to have withdrawn…
Do I need ‘proper’ education?
My parents have threatened to kick me out if I don’t go back to college – but I don’t want to! Your parents have a point, says our elder. Why…
Are my friends avoiding me?
They never want to hang out. Don’t jump to conclusions, says our elder. Reach out to them in an honest and caring manner to find out. Dear EWC Lately I…
Will I like it in 10 years?
How do you find a career you love? Our elder helps a letter writer who enjoys Computer Science now but worries that they might change their mind. Dear EWC…
Do I have ADHD?
My husband thinks so, but I can’t afford the doctor appointments to find out. There are low-cost ways to get the help you need, says our elder. And don’t judge…
Are you sure you’re gay, son?
My son just came out to me and I totally mishandled it. How can I make it right? It’s not too late, says our elder. Start by asking questions and…
Trapped by $50k debts
I want to leave my partner for someone else, but we can’t afford to separate. And then there’s the kids… I know it’s not what you want to hear, says…
My friend’s unloving family
I have a friend whose parents are very traditional, and she feels that they put their own feelings before hers. How can I help here? Our elder has some advice…