Our volunteers at ElderWisdomCircle dispense such wise, warm-hearted advice that we couldn’t resist sharing some gems with you too. If you want to ask for advice right now check out the ask for advice page.
We post a new problem and the advice here twice per week so check back regularly (or subscribe) to find out what’s bothering our young letter writers, and what their wise older mentors have to say about it.
I hope you’ll feel inspired to apply their wisdom to your own life—and remember, if there’s something on your mind, our elders are always here to help.
Doug Meckelson
Founder
Do I want to be alone or not?
I’ve been feeling lonely, but then found myself turning down an invite. What gives? Our elder helps a letter writer ...
Where are the FB photos of me?
My daughter never posts pictures of me on her Facebook page, but her in-laws are all over it! How can ...
Should I report a homophobe?
A colleague makes homophobic remarks to me, but I’m scared of losing my job if I report her. This is ...
Is it normal not to feel things?
Sometimes I stay in bed all day. Could I be depressed? It’s not a good idea to self-diagnose, says our ...
My friend has cancer
How will I cope without her? It will take some time to adjust, says our elder, but now it’s your ...
Sorry, Sis, I’m the star today!
My sister hasn’t been home in three years, but she’s coming back for my wedding. Is it wrong to worry ...
Can introverts go to college?
I’m an introvert with average grades who sucks at sports. What can I put on my college resume? Our elder ...
Is my co-worker a creep?
He said he liked my dimples — but it’s clear we’re just friends, right? Erm… sounds like he might want ...
We have unfinished business!
I’m obsessed with a family friend but she won’t talk to me. What can I do? Our elder has some ...
Is my friend homophobic?
All was going well with my new friend until she discovered I once had a relationship with a woman. Now ...