Featured Advice

Our volunteers at ElderWisdomCircle dispense such wise, warm-hearted advice that we couldn’t resist sharing some gems with you too. If you want to ask for advice right now check out the ask for advice page  

We post a new problem and the advice here twice per week so check back regularly (or subscribe)  to find out what’s bothering our young letter writers, and what their wise older mentors have to say about it.

I hope you’ll feel inspired to apply their wisdom to your own life—and remember, if there’s something on your mind, our elders are always here to help.

Doug Meckelson
Founder

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Do I have to stay with Mom?

My mom moved 1,400 km for a job but I just want to go home! Is that wrong? Not at ...

/ / Family

Break-up? We weren’t together!

My roommate moved out because I told her we could never be a couple — and now she’s ranting about ...

/ / Friendship

Addicted to video games

My little brother is so addicted to video games that he can’t even go to the bathroom. You are right ...

/ / Children

Am I in love or is it lust?

A letter writer likes kissing his girlfriend — but is he in love? Take a chance, says our elder, but ...

/ / Dating/Relationship

Should I look after Mom?

My wife hates my 92-year-old mom, but If I don’t take care of her, she’ll cut me out of her ...

/ / Family

I’m not going if he’s going!

A letter writer has tickets for the event of a lifetime, but his best friend is already going with another ...

/ / Friendship

No, mom, I won’t date him!

A letter writer feels she has to date a friend because her parents like him… but he makes her feel ...

/ / Dating/Relationship

Am I trailer trash?

My fiance’s family have offered to sell us their mobile home, but my best friend and sister say it’s trashy ...

/ / Self-Improvement

Should I room with my friend?

A letter writer’s friend wants to room with him at college. Thing is, he’s a bit of an introvert. Is ...

/ / School

No, I’m not taking my top off

A letter writer is so ashamed of her body that she won’t let her boyfriend see her without her top ...

/ / Dating/Relationship