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I hope you’ll feel inspired to apply their wisdom to your own life—and remember, if there’s something on your mind, our elders are always here to help.
Doug Meckelson
Founder
Blackmailed into a friendship
My ‘friend’ has sucked all the happiness out of my life — but he uses emotional blackmail to keep me ...
I hate my teammate…
…but my coach says we have to be friends. Not true, says our elder. She’s like a work colleague — ...
My fiancé makes racist jokes
A letter writer and her fiancé don’t always agree on politics, but he’s really upset her this time. Should she ...
How to get over being bullied?
I was bullied in the past, and now I want to let all of that go and build a better ...
School… or sailing the world?
I love my university but I’m a free spirit at heart. How can I follow my passion for adventure? You ...
I gave up my happiness for her…
… and she’s still not happy! Should we move (again!) just to please my wife? I can understand your resentment, ...
‘First job’ anxiety
I’ve just landed my dream job… but how can I stop the ‘what-ifs’ and the dread? You are not alone, ...
Stalked by my sister!
My sister is obsessed with me online and it’s wearing me down. How can I make it stop? Do your ...
Back off! I don’t want gifts
My best friend has feelings for me, and now it’s really awkward — he keeps buying me unwanted gifts and ...
My boyfriend’s poly past
Why is my boyfriend being so secretive about his previous relationship — with a couple? It’s time to let go ...