But I still feel overwhelmed! Take a step back, says our elder, and focus on one or two things at a time. And be proud of yourself for working to…
Focus on Yourself and Look at the Bigger Picture
Sim wrote in to Elder Wisdom Circle, filled with social anxiety around birthday plans. She was trying to come up with plans with either her friends or her family, but…
Should I move state?
It’s the only way to prove to myself that I can be independent. Moving state can be daunting, says our elder. Plan your next steps carefully. Dear EWC So,…
My ex is my soulmate
But I do love my boyfriend! Our elder has some suggestions for a letter writer who is torn between two men. Perhaps it’s time to fly solo for a while?…
Grandma, I’m pregnant
An 18-year-old letter writer has some difficult decisions ahead. I was once in the same situation, says our elder. Talk to your grandmother. Dear EWC Lately, I’ve been feeling…
My family is so dumb
This letter writer feels that his education has separated him from his family. I know how you feel, says our elder. Continue to expand your horizons, but respect your family…
Surprise! We’re family
I did some research and found some long-lost family – including my biological father. Should I make contact? Sure, says our elder. Take that first step in a non-threatening way….
He’s my best friend…
But if he does well, it feels like I’m losing! Our elder has some advice for a high achiever who feels guilty about ‘competing’ with their best friend. Dear…
Is law school worth it?
A letter writer is thinking about their college major – and has a bunch of questions. Our elder has some good news: you don’t have to make a decision right…
My flirty friend is back…
But does he mean it when he says he loves me? Our elder sees some red flags. Dear EWC I’ve been friends with this guy for years. We were…