Should I move to be with my husband and hope he treats me well this time? It would mean leaving my mom all alone… Our elder encourages a letter writer…
Our moms are best friends…
… but does that mean I have to be trapped in a friendship I hate? There is a way out, says our elder, but it won’t be easy. Dear EWC…
His dog’s secret seizures
My husband’s dog might have to be put down, but his mom won’t let me tell him (he’s away with the military). Should I betray her confidence? Let him know…
Does he just want a warm body?
My friend with benefits says he isn’t ready for a relationship. Should I leave him? Absolutely, says our elder. He’s unlikely to change. Dear EWC So I have a weird…
What if she hates her name?
My wife and I are expecting twins. Can I name my daughter Constantine? Our elder shares the stories behind her own children’s names to reassure him. Dear EWC My wife…
Help! I’m about to be laid off
A letter writer is about to lose her job — but the good news is that she knows what she wants to do. Can our elder help her find the…
Surprise! We’re back together!
I’ve decided to get back with my ex-fiancé — but how do I tell my family? Don’t ask for their permission, advises our elder. My old running coach has a…
Hey guys, can we hang IRL?
I want to hang out with my friends in real life — not just online. Is that weird? You’re onto something, says our elder. It’s a big problem! Here are…
What is wrong with me?
Everything is going right — so why can’t I get out of bed? Our elder is no medical expert, but it does sound like depression. Dear EWC I am a…
My parents expect straight As…
… but they can’t see that I’m struggling! Breathe, says our elder. Nobody needs to be perfect. Keep communicating with your parents and seek the support you need. Dear EWC…