My ‘friend’ has sucked all the happiness out of my life — but he uses emotional blackmail to keep me around. Our elder has some advice on how to pull…
I hate my teammate…
…but my coach says we have to be friends. Not true, says our elder. She’s like a work colleague — treat her with respect, but you certainly don’t have to…
My fiancé makes racist jokes
A letter writer and her fiancé don’t always agree on politics, but he’s really upset her this time. Should she be having second thoughts? Our elder gives it to her…
How to get over being bullied?
I was bullied in the past, and now I want to let all of that go and build a better mindset. Any tips? It sounds like you’re on the right…
School… or sailing the world?
I love my university but I’m a free spirit at heart. How can I follow my passion for adventure? You have your whole life ahead of you, says our elder….
I gave up my happiness for her…
… and she’s still not happy! Should we move (again!) just to please my wife? I can understand your resentment, says our elder. Why not give marriage counseling a try?…
‘First job’ anxiety
I’ve just landed my dream job… but how can I stop the ‘what-ifs’ and the dread? You are not alone, says our elder. Think positive! Dear EWC Hi! I’m hoping…
Stalked by my sister!
My sister is obsessed with me online and it’s wearing me down. How can I make it stop? Do your best to ignore it, says our elder. It sounds like…
Back off! I don’t want gifts
My best friend has feelings for me, and now it’s really awkward — he keeps buying me unwanted gifts and won’t let me date anyone else. Treat him with caution,…
My boyfriend’s poly past
Why is my boyfriend being so secretive about his previous relationship — with a couple? It’s time to let go of his past, says our elder. Love is unconditional. Dear…