My boyfriend just broke things off because he wants to fix himself — but he still wants to be friends. Should we? Our elder has some very specific advice for…
Friendzoned by work boss crush?
He’s not my actual boss… so I could still date him, right? Managers have to be careful, says our elder. Best to back off. Dear EWC At work I have…
Do we have to live together?
I love my boyfriend but living together made me anxious — so I moved out. Can our relationship work? There is more than one way to be in love, says…
Stuck in a rut
I’ve been with my fiancé for ten years and I’m not sure I want to stay with him. Think of the future, says our elder. Have a talk with him;…
America or my girlfriend?
My family wants to move back to the US, but the thing is, there’s this girl… You will meet many more cute girls in your lifetime, says our elder. Go…
Happy birthday — you’re dumped!
I want to break up with a boy I’ve been dating, but I don’t want to do it just before his birthday. Help! Don’t worry, says our elder. It’s only…
Selfish to want a wedding?
My fiancé’s parents offered to pay for a wedding, or for a down payment on a house. We want the wedding! Is that wrong? My friend says it’s selfish. Who…
BF’s bro tempts me every time
I’m sleeping with my best friend’s brother — we are risking a lot but we can’t stop. Our elder is in no doubt about the right thing to do. Dear…
They won’t even meet him!
My parents don’t approve of my boyfriend, but they haven’t even met him yet. How can I bring them together? Your parents are only trying to keep you safe, says…
Get off my couch!
I need space — lots of space. How can I get my boyfriend to understand? It’s time for honest and open communication, says our elder. Set some ground rules. Dear…