I really want to have a breast reduction to help with severe back pain, but my boyfriend says he won’t be attracted to me anymore. What should I do? Run,…
The pants are staying!
I helped my boyfriend shop for an outfit for a family event, but now his sister’s taking over — and I feel hurt. Our elder suspects there might be more…
He’s addicted to gambling
My boyfriend is so addicted to sports betting, he once checked his phone 25 times during a movie. What can I do? Our elder has experience of a loved one’s…
A lawyer watched me pack!
My ex humiliated me when she kicked me out. How can I get over this? Our elder has some tips for recovering from a cruel breakup (including: don’t expect an…
Is she a scammer?
I want to get married to a woman I met online, but she keeps asking me for money. Should I continue with this relationship? Don’t fall for her bullsh*%t, says…
Fear of flying (and Florida)
I’ve been invited to my boyfriend’s family reunion in Florida, but I hate the heat and I’m nervous about flying. Should I go? Absolutely, says our elder. Work on your…
I dumped my fiancé by text…
…and now I want him back! Does he hate me? Confide in him, says our elder. You can make it through this. Dear EWC I am 19 years old and…
Can I date a single mom?
I really want to date this girl, but I’m scared of messing things up with her daughter. Take a chance, says our elder. You’ll do great! Dear EWC A new…
My boyfriend’s poly past
Why is my boyfriend being so secretive about his previous relationship — with a couple? It’s time to let go of his past, says our elder. Love is unconditional. Dear…
How can I last longer in bed?
A letter writer is concerned that he can only last five minutes — and his girlfriend is not happy. Our elder has some helpful advice on foreplay. Dear EWC Hi,…