Family

I’ve decided to get back with my ex-fiancé — but how do I tell my family? Don’t ask for their permission, advises our elder. My old running coach has a…

My mom and grandma were abusive — but they say I should be thankful! Should I distance myself from them? Absolutely, says our elder. You don’t owe them anything. Dear…

My mom is going through a hard time, and I’m so busy helping with my brothers that there’s no time left for me. Talk to your mother, says our elder….

My dad lives abroad — but he can still come back for the weekend for my dance competition, right? Not necessarily, says our elder — but there is a possible…

My fiancé’s daughter has been in my life for three years, but I don’t feel that I love her yet. Is this wrong? Don’t be so hard on yourself, says…

Every time I think about her, I cry — but I don’t remember what happened. It’s time you took some steps to find out, say our elders. Whatever you discover,…

My brother’s girlfriend wants to come to my wedding dress fittings but it’s getting kinda crowded. Am I being unreasonable? Not at all, says our elder. Stand up for yourself,…

I had my son’s wedding rehearsal dinner all planned, but then the bride’s father took over. Now he wants $1,500! Should I pay up? Try not to take offense, says…

My grandparents live all over the US, and we just can’t afford it anymore. Help! Our elder has some tried-and-tested solutions for staying in touch with grandparents who live out…

I’m not close with my family but they’re insisting on coming for Christmas this year. Even worse, my mom thinks she’s cooking for everyone! How can I tell them to…