Marriage

I beat my eating disorder but my husband’s nagging is putting my recovery at risk. He sounds like a backseat driver, says our elder. Maybe you could help him find…

I fell out with a friend, but my husband still met up with her for business. He should have stuck by me, right? Sure he should, says our elder. But…

My husband just confessed that he has a porn addiction, even though he knows it’s the one thing I won’t tolerate. Your feelings are natural, says our elder, but try…

My brother’s ex generously hands down her daughter’s old clothes to our daughter, but my husband won’t accept them. How can I convince him? Our elder has a few strategies…

… but can you quit boasting about it now? Also: please stop with the drinking. Our elder counsels a letter writer who has multiple problems in her marriage. Dear EWC…

My husband is on deployment, but every time we have a call, he just looks at social media. How can I stop feeling like a failure? You are not a…

My husband’s cousin has been staying with us temporarily, but now she’s accusing my husband of being abusive. I want her out of our home! She’s crossed a line, says…

I don’t want to marry the last guy who proposed… but I’m so lonely! That’s no reason to rush into marriage, says our elder. Expand your network while you figure…

… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home before you had children, says our elder. But now you…

Should I tell my wife? Be clear about what you want to happen, says our elder. But have an honest discussion with your wife. Dear EWC OK, so I got…