… but can you quit boasting about it now? Also: please stop with the drinking. Our elder counsels a letter writer who has multiple problems in her marriage. Dear EWC…
He just scrolls when we talk
My husband is on deployment, but every time we have a call, he just looks at social media. How can I stop feeling like a failure? You are not a…
No, he’s not a sex addict!
My husband’s cousin has been staying with us temporarily, but now she’s accusing my husband of being abusive. I want her out of our home! She’s crossed a line, says…
Is arranged marriage for me?
I don’t want to marry the last guy who proposed… but I’m so lonely! That’s no reason to rush into marriage, says our elder. Expand your network while you figure…
I agreed to be a SAHM…
… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home before you had children, says our elder. But now you…
I cheated; she’s pregnant
Should I tell my wife? Be clear about what you want to happen, says our elder. But have an honest discussion with your wife. Dear EWC OK, so I got…
My selfish husband or my mom?
Should I move to be with my husband and hope he treats me well this time? It would mean leaving my mom all alone… Our elder encourages a letter writer…
Four more years with no sex?
I live with my girlfriend and her parents. We can’t get married for another four years, and she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage. Can I hold out that long?…
Polyamory problems
It was all going so well until I started falling for the ‘other’ guy. Then my husband got mad. Maybe he’s shown you what you’re missing in your marriage, suggests…
Is 18 too young to get married?
My family have threatened to abandon me if I walk down the aisle before I graduate! Well it is a bit young, says our elder. Can you give it another…