Is his anger my fault? No, says our elder, but here’s what you can do to help both of you. Dear EWC: Hello, my husband and I have been together…
Lessons in adulting
She’s newly married and just starting college. He’s off to join the Army. Our elder offers a few ideas to help this newlywed become an independent adult. Dear EWC: Hello,…
Becoming a two-church family?
She’s not happy with their current church. Her husband wants to stay. Our elder offers several suggestions for reconciliation. Dear EWC: I have been unhappy in our church for about…
This husband’s in a holi-daze
She grew up celebrating holidays. He didn’t. Our elder offers a creative fix for being festive on your own. Dear EWC: Hello. Two years ago this week I married the…
Can a couple become a trio?
He’s already married but wants to add another “wife.” Our elder admits that the odds are not good for this delicate and difficult equation. Dear EWC: Hello. I’m married with…
Married to a momma’s boy
They’re constantly on the phone, and she even FaceTimes him topless! You’re going to have to talk with him, says our elder. This can’t continue. Dear EWC My husband is…
Mom doesn’t know I’m divorced
She’s 92 and has dementia, but I feel bad keeping it a secret. Should I tell her? Usually I’d say that honesty is best, says our elder. But this time,…
My mom or my partner?
I want to move in with my partner but my mom says she will disown me. I’m 29! She is a black hole of neediness, says our elder. I suggest…
My wife and her projects
After losing her job, my wife has kept herself busy with “projects”, but I’m worried she’s neglecting our kids. She’s doing what is best for her mental health right now,…
No more favors for my FIL
My in-laws are always asking for us to do stuff and my wife can’t say no. Our elder has some tips on how to establish boundaries. Dear EWC My wife…