My husband wanted an open marriage but I couldn’t cope. Now I’ve found a note he wrote to his coworker about me. What should I do? Our elder says there…

My husband wants to move to a trailer in Hawaii, but I have responsibilities here. Am I being selfish? Our elder recommends counseling to come up with a compromise. Dear…

…and I’m five months pregnant. Should I leave him? You are right to be worried, advises our elder. Get out as soon as you can. Dear EWC I am five…

I support him — but what do I tell my children, asks a letter writer. Our elder admires her attitude and has some advice on how to start the conversation….

He thought it was a yeast infection… Ouch, says our elder. I can see how much this hurts, but try not to let it define your lives. Dear EWC My…

A letter writer’s husband can’t get over his fear of being cheated on — and she’s fed up of being falsely accused. This is not a good situation, says our…

My lying husband said he was going for dinner with a colleague — but I found him at the strip club! Can I ever trust him again? Our elder is…

A letter writer’s husband has cancer, but he’s in denial about just how sick he is. How can she get him to talk to her about their finances? Our elder…

My in-laws’ behavior is so hurtful that I’m considering divorce. Our elder says: it’s time your husband had a word with them. Dear EWC I have been with my husband…

A letter writer doesn’t feel that she deserves her wonderful husband. Can our elder convince her otherwise? Dear EWC My husband is by far the sweetest, kindest, smartest, funniest, most…