I don’t want to marry the last guy who proposed… but I’m so lonely! That’s no reason to rush into marriage, says our elder. Expand your network while you figure…
I agreed to be a SAHM…
… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home before you had children, says our elder. But now you…
I cheated; she’s pregnant
Should I tell my wife? Be clear about what you want to happen, says our elder. But have an honest discussion with your wife. Dear EWC OK, so I got…
My selfish husband or my mom?
Should I move to be with my husband and hope he treats me well this time? It would mean leaving my mom all alone… Our elder encourages a letter writer…
Four more years with no sex?
I live with my girlfriend and her parents. We can’t get married for another four years, and she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage. Can I hold out that long?…
Polyamory problems
It was all going so well until I started falling for the ‘other’ guy. Then my husband got mad. Maybe he’s shown you what you’re missing in your marriage, suggests…
Is 18 too young to get married?
My family have threatened to abandon me if I walk down the aisle before I graduate! Well it is a bit young, says our elder. Can you give it another…
Will I end up in debt like Mom?
My husband is tired of me saying no — but I’m worried about our finances and scared I’ll end up like my mom. Our elder recommends setting a budget, and…
I need my husband by my side…
… All. The. Time. I know it annoys him, but I hate it when he wants to go out. Our elder suspects the letter writer’s new baby has a lot…
My wife hates my leggings!
I like wearing leggings, but my wife says they make me look like a crossdresser. Maybe save them for the gym, says our elder — if only in the interests…