… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home before you had children, says our elder. But now you…
He just scrolls when we talk
My husband is on deployment, but every time we have a call, he just looks at social media. How can I stop feeling like a failure? You are not a…
Is 18 too young to get married?
My family have threatened to abandon me if I walk down the aisle before I graduate! Well it is a bit young, says our elder. Can you give it another…
Erm, why is a prostitute funny?
I was hurt and embarrassed when my husband’s family joked about his Navy adventures — but he says I’m overreacting! You’re not the problem, says our elder — it’s him….
About that note you wrote…
My husband wanted an open marriage but I couldn’t cope. Now I’ve found a note he wrote to his coworker about me. What should I do? Our elder says there…
My husband gave me herpes!
He thought it was a yeast infection… Ouch, says our elder. I can see how much this hurts, but try not to let it define your lives. Dear EWC…
I want to try adulting
But I can’t even set up a doctor’s appointment! This married letter writer wants to become more independent. Start with that college degree, says our elder. Dear EWC Hello,…
How to have a happy marriage
A newlywed wants to know the secret. Here’s what our elder had to say: Speak kindly to one another, pick your battles, and book date nights in your 70s. …
Marriage issues, new work crush
Could these two problems possibly be related? After struggling at home, this letter writer has developed a wandering eye. Try to fix your marriage problems first, says our elder. …
Fed up of paying for his BF
My husband’s friend keeps hitting him up for money when I am not around. How can I make this stop, asks a letter writer. Our elder advises getting some professional…