I was traumatized by my volleyball team, and even after switching colleges I still can’t let it go. Our elder has some suggestions for getting a monkey off your back…
I can’t keep dating my boss…
… but if I leave him to move home, I’ll be back where I started. Your life has progressed, says our elder. So even if you do move home, you…
I took drugs in the past…
… and I got away with it! How can I make sure that justice is served? We all make mistakes, says our elder. Let the past go, and forgive yourself….
I am two different people
My personality at school is not the same as at home. Why do I act like this? Rest assured, it’s perfectly normal, says our elder — it’s an excellent coping…
Nobody to have a beer with
How do you make friends as an adult when you’re not a group person? My life feels so empty! You can do it, says our elder. Volunteering worked for me….
Can bf teach me street smarts?
It’s not my fault I have no common sense, but my boyfriend gets frustrated. How can I get him to help me? First, says our elder, he needs to accept…
People call me ugly
How can I stop worrying about my looks? Your friends don’t believe you are ugly, says our elder. Remember, it’s what’s inside that counts. Dear EWC I feel ugly. My…
My body image issues are back
I beat anorexia once, but now that college is looming, I’m worried about falling back into old habits. What can I do to stay grounded? Ask for help when you…
What is wrong with me?
Everything is going right — so why can’t I get out of bed? Our elder is no medical expert, but it does sound like depression. Dear EWC I am a…
Too old for plushies?
My mom wants me to get rid of my childhood toys, but I don’t want to! Should I be more grown-up at nearly 18? Our elder has some tips on…