I don’t want to spend all summer playing video games indoors. What can I do? Our elder helps an ambitious letter writer to make a plan of action. Dear EWC…
How do I talk without blushing?
I can’t speak to new people without my face going hot. Is there a secret to being more confident? There sure is, says our elder. Fake it till you make…
Help! I think I’m a narcissist
I’ve noticed that I have to be the center of attention all the time. How can I stop? Our elder has some tips on how to raise your self-esteem, and…
Did my therapist screw me up?
After eight years of working with my therapist, I have lost my family and have no friends. Was I right to kick her to the curb? It sounds like you…
Nobody takes me seriously!
All my life, I’ve been dismissed and brushed aside. I have a successful life — so why is everyone still treating me like this? Our elder has some strategies for…
How to get over being bullied?
I was bullied in the past, and now I want to let all of that go and build a better mindset. Any tips? It sounds like you’re on the right…
Stop being so stubborn
A letter writer feels that she’s too argumentative, and she wants to change. It’s good to stand up for what you believe in, says our elder. How about channeling your…
Should I shave my head?
A letter writer wants to shave her hair off, but worries that she might regret it and spiral back into bad habits. Can our elder help her feel better about…
I messed up my trumpet solo!
A letter writer is mortified after screwing up an important concert solo. Can a bit of encouragement help them get their mojo back? Dear EWC I play the trumpet and…
Quit judging me already!
Why do my family and friends make me out to be a loser just because I’m not as accomplished as my older brother? Continue to live by your values, says…