My personality at school is not the same as at home. Why do I act like this? Rest assured, it’s perfectly normal, says our elder — it’s an excellent coping…
Nobody to have a beer with
How do you make friends as an adult when you’re not a group person? My life feels so empty! You can do it, says our elder. Volunteering worked for me….
Can bf teach me street smarts?
It’s not my fault I have no common sense, but my boyfriend gets frustrated. How can I get him to help me? First, says our elder, he needs to accept…
People call me ugly
How can I stop worrying about my looks? Your friends don’t believe you are ugly, says our elder. Remember, it’s what’s inside that counts. Dear EWC I feel ugly. My…
My body image issues are back
I beat anorexia once, but now that college is looming, I’m worried about falling back into old habits. What can I do to stay grounded? Ask for help when you…
What is wrong with me?
Everything is going right — so why can’t I get out of bed? Our elder is no medical expert, but it does sound like depression. Dear EWC I am a…
Too old for plushies?
My mom wants me to get rid of my childhood toys, but I don’t want to! Should I be more grown-up at nearly 18? Our elder has some tips on…
I’m scared of other people…
… but I need a job and my brother depends on me. Can our elder persuade a self-confessed “bedroom lurker” to take the first step? Dear EWC So I’ve been…
All I need is love
I feel ashamed that I can’t show my son what a good relationship looks like. Why can’t I be happy? Take some time out, say our elders, and focus on…
My imaginary friend: I’m 29!
I created my imaginary friend when I was bullied growing up — but he’s still around. Don’t let him prevent you from reaching out for friendship, says our elder. Dear…