… but they can’t see that I’m struggling! Breathe, says our elder. Nobody needs to be perfect. Keep communicating with your parents and seek the support you need. Dear EWC…
Four more years with no sex?
I live with my girlfriend and her parents. We can’t get married for another four years, and she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage. Can I hold out that long?…
I hate my roommate!
For the second year in a row, I have a horrible roommate — and her boyfriend is living with us too. Can I snitch on them? Sure you can, says…
I can’t take my toxic family
My mom and grandma were abusive — but they say I should be thankful! Should I distance myself from them? Absolutely, says our elder. You don’t owe them anything. Dear…
My twin daughters are clones!
It used to be cute; now it’s getting creepy. How can I get them out of this phase? You are right to encourage their individuality, says our elder. Just try…
I want to work with the dead
My family says I’ve always been a little morbid… so how do I find a career working with dead people? Our elder has some wide-ranging suggestions: have you considered cosmetology…
Stressed out by mom’s divorce
My mom is going through a hard time, and I’m so busy helping with my brothers that there’s no time left for me. Talk to your mother, says our elder….
Newsflash! I don’t love you
My boyfriend suddenly said he stopped loving me. I’m pregnant! How did he change his mind that fast? His temper is a red flag, says our elder. Move on —…
Too old for plushies?
My mom wants me to get rid of my childhood toys, but I don’t want to! Should I be more grown-up at nearly 18? Our elder has some tips on…
Too angry to get to school
I yell and rant so much every morning that I often end up missing school. How can I change my behavior? Maybe your letter is a sign that you’re growing…