A letter writer dreams of joining the military and is looking for the next steps. I’m excited for your adventure, says our elder. Here are some resources that may help….
Crushing on my co-worker
I love my boyfriend but I can’t help flirting with a guy at work. Am I a bad person? You’re not a bad person for wanting to explore, says our…
Rejected from Princeton; what now?
All I ever wanted was to get into Princeton but they rejected me! Everything happens for a reason, says our elder. You’ll find the college that’s right for you. …
I am just ordinary
A letter writer dreams of being a psychiatric nurse, but never feels good enough. Can our elder help her find the motivation she needs? Dear EWC At a considerably…
Will I ever stop grieving?
A letter writer worries that he’ll never get over the loss of his brother and grandmother. Grief doesn’t go away, says our elder. But you can learn to integrate it…
I have nothing besides school
A student is so caught up with her grades that she’s neglected the rest of her life. Our elder thinks that online testing might help her identify what she loves….
No life experience; I’m failing
A sheltered upbringing, a controlling family, a learning difficulty… How can I be an adult? Look outside the family, says our elder. A career counselor will help you find a…
Tired of the best friend drama
When my grandfather died, I realized my relationship with my best friend needs to change. Don’t make any big decisions while you are grieving, says our elder. Dear EWC…
A good person or a success?
I work for a nonprofit. Is it enough to be “good” or should I be striving for success? You can aim for both, says our elder. But I’d always put…
Help! I’m a people-pleaser
A letter writer is afraid of being a burden. Our elder has some tips on how she can build her self esteem. Dear EWC Hello! First of all, thank…