We’re not in a relationship, but every time we go out drinking one of us gets jealous and we have a huge, embarrassing fight. Oh my, says our elder. Sounds…
My nephew is plain rude
He can’t even say “thank you” and I think that’s unacceptable. I’m not a fan of rudeness, says our elder. But he’s not your child to discipline. Dear EWC I…
Should I save my sister?
My younger sister is homeless. Should I help her get back on her feet? It’s an awesome goal, says our elder. But you need to have a serious talk with…
I’m not that into my boyfriend
He gets in the way of what I want to do, but I don’t have any other friends. That’s a red flag, says our elder. There’s no reason to stay…
I lost my public speaking mojo
It used to be fun; now speaking in public makes me start shaking. How did this happen? You may never know why, says our elder. But there are things you…
A career path in psychedelics?
I’m interested in marijuana and psychedelics — could there be a career in research? For sure, says our elder. Find a university with a broad range of studies, follow your…
Should I let my family back in?
Life got better after I cut my family off, but I feel lost. Help! You broke with your family for a reason, says our elder. Take time to heal before…
Selfish to want a wedding?
My fiancé’s parents offered to pay for a wedding, or for a down payment on a house. We want the wedding! Is that wrong? My friend says it’s selfish. Who…
Free car or my freedom?
Our elder advises a college student whose parents are happy to pay his rent, or buy him a car — but not both. The important thing is to stay in…
My friends weren’t there for me
I managed to leave my toxic boyfriend but now I feel distant from my friends. Stop beating up on yourself, says our elder, and find someone you can talk to…