“My culture expects me to live with my parents after college, but I need to pursue my own life.” Our Elder says: “Being a mature adult includes having the courage…
“Stop Taking Antidepressants Or Else!”
“My boyfriend says that if I keep taking my medications and seeing a therapist, he will break up with me.” Our Elder advises: “Put yourself first and follow the advice…
I Am More Than the Color of My Skin.
“I strive to overcome every stereotype and to create joy, but it seems the world no longer appreciates a true gentleman.” Our Elder says: “Don’t give up. You have a…
I Wish My Life Was As Good As Theirs.
“My friends all have lots of money and find school easy, while I struggle with everything. How do I stop being jealous?” Our Elder team advises: “It is normal to…
Why Do My Friends Abandon Me?
“I make new friends, but they all drift away and I feel lonely. What should I do?” Our Elder says: “People have their own troubles and can’t always be there…
Looking for Mr. Right
“I’m ready for a relationship, but I’m very picky. What qualities should I look for?” Our Elder replies: “The more different people you date, the more you will understand what…
The Very Bad Roommate
“My roommate is so messy and makes so much noise that I am not getting enough sleep.” Our Elder says: “Establish firm boundaries and take care of yourself first. Your…
Am I Being Compulsive If I Drop an Inconsiderate Friend?
“I was planning an outing with a friend, then they went without me and never called.” Our Elder says: “You cannot control other people’s behavior, and friends are bound to …
Bad manners? Or Just Being a Responsible Employee
“My friend hung up on me abruptly to deal with work. I feel insulted.” Our Elder says: “Let it go, he had to do his job. But why was he…
Family Interferes With Long Distance Relationship
“Should I Give Up On a Boyfriend Who Puts Family Ahead of Me?” Our Elder says: “Relax and don’t take things so personally, But if he’s as bad as you…