“My boyfriend says that if I keep taking my medications and seeing a therapist, he will break up with me.” Our Elder advises: “Put yourself first and follow the advice…
I Am More Than the Color of My Skin.
“I strive to overcome every stereotype and to create joy, but it seems the world no longer appreciates a true gentleman.” Our Elder says: “Don’t give up. You have a…
I Wish My Life Was As Good As Theirs.
“My friends all have lots of money and find school easy, while I struggle with everything. How do I stop being jealous?” Our Elder team advises: “It is normal to…
Why Do My Friends Abandon Me?
“I make new friends, but they all drift away and I feel lonely. What should I do?” Our Elder says: “People have their own troubles and can’t always be there…
Looking for Mr. Right
“I’m ready for a relationship, but I’m very picky. What qualities should I look for?” Our Elder replies: “The more different people you date, the more you will understand what…
The Very Bad Roommate
“My roommate is so messy and makes so much noise that I am not getting enough sleep.” Our Elder says: “Establish firm boundaries and take care of yourself first. Your…
Am I Being Compulsive If I Drop an Inconsiderate Friend?
“I was planning an outing with a friend, then they went without me and never called.” Our Elder says: “You cannot control other people’s behavior, and friends are bound to …
Bad manners? Or Just Being a Responsible Employee
“My friend hung up on me abruptly to deal with work. I feel insulted.” Our Elder says: “Let it go, he had to do his job. But why was he…
Family Interferes With Long Distance Relationship
“Should I Give Up On a Boyfriend Who Puts Family Ahead of Me?” Our Elder says: “Relax and don’t take things so personally, But if he’s as bad as you…
They spread lies about me!
Backstabbers at my expensive school have ruined everything between me and my crush. Ignore the gossip, says our elder. Talk to your crush and set the record straight. Dear…