My husband thinks so, but I can’t afford the doctor appointments to find out. There are low-cost ways to get the help you need, says our elder. And don’t judge…
Are you sure you’re gay, son?
My son just came out to me and I totally mishandled it. How can I make it right? It’s not too late, says our elder. Start by asking questions and…
My friend’s unloving family
I have a friend whose parents are very traditional, and she feels that they put their own feelings before hers. How can I help here? Our elder has some advice…
Saying no to a narcissist
My friend only cares about herself. How can I learn to say no to her? If you want to be rid of her, then you’ll need to set some boundaries,…
Write expectations
My parents both dropped out. Can I still get to college and become a writer? You’re on the right path, says our elder. Keep on following your passion. Dear EWC…
My fiancé is still married
Can I make him get an annulment? Our elder advises a letter writer who is caught between love and the Catholic Church. Dear EWC I have been with this guy…
We argued; now he needs me
My SO and I had a big fight right before he lost someone in his family. How can I support him? First, figure out if you can forgive him, says…
Guilt or revenge?
A girl ruined my life last year; this year the tables turned. Am I a bad person? One episode doesn’t define who we are, says our elder. From now on,…
I’m so shy!
A letter-writer is afraid of making mistakes and being judged. I know just how you feel, says our elder – I’m an introvert too. Here’s what works for me. …
Growing apart from Mom
Can we reconnect before I go to college? I appreciate your maturity, says our elder. Here are a few suggestions for tackling a conversation with your mom. Dear EWC…