Family

My parents expect me to look after them but they don’t appreciate anything I do. It’s time to put your needs first, says our elder. Study for your future, and…

I pay for everything — but my dad still makes me out to be the villain. Let’s get one thing straight, says our elder. You don’t owe your dad anything….

My mom accused me of lying, and then she spied on me. Stay calm, says our elder, and try to smooth things over. She might be upset about events that…

My younger sister is homeless. Should I help her get back on her feet? It’s an awesome goal, says our elder. But you need to have a serious talk with…

I used to love playing the piano, but I’m losing my passion for it. Is my dad’s criticism to blame, or am I just looking for an excuse? It sounds…

My mother in law can’t accept that I’m capable of looking after her precious boy. Our elder can empathize — and has some strategies to try. Dear EWC I don’t…

My sister hasn’t been home in three years, but she’s coming back for my wedding. Is it wrong to worry that she might steal my limelight? You have nothing to…

I’ve always looked after others — but nobody looks after me! It’s time to make the change happen, says our elder. Dear EWC From a young age, I’ve been the…

My kids’ uncle showed up while my son was babysitting and scared them half to death. Even worse, I think my mother-in-law sent him! This sounds complicated, says our elder….

… and she’s still not happy! Should we move (again!) just to please my wife? I can understand your resentment, says our elder. Why not give marriage counseling a try?…