My girlfriend got pregnant and I’ve decided to stay with her. How can I tell my mom? Just share your truth with her, says our elder. I’m sure she’ll appreciate…
My brother’s getting married
I’m scared I’m going to lose him. There’s no limit to love, says our elder. Your brother will always be there for you. Enjoy the wedding! Dear EWC Hi,…
Sure, they pay for everything…
But I’d still like to set some boundaries with my parents. Our elder helps a letter writer who has just moved back home and needs a little space. Dear…
They’re angry, I’m angry…
My parents have a short fuse, and when they scold me I lose my temper too. How can I control myself? Anger is an emotion, says our elder. You can…
“Stop being sad and lazy”
When I told my parents about having depression, they didn’t understand. Talk to them again, says our elder. And find a trusted adult who can get you the help you…
My stepmom hates herself
I love her but I can’t help her. You can’t ‘fix’ your stepmom, says our elder. But if she’s creating a difficult environment, it’s worth seeking out some support for…
My annoying brother
He deliberately winds me up, and puts me down in front of other people. He loves getting a rise out of you, says our elder. Don’t let him see that…
How do I announce baby #2?
I haven’t known the father long and I don’t want any more negative reactions. Why not start by simply introducing your new man, says our elder. You can share the…
How do I move out?
I have savings; I just don’t know how to do it! Why not try moving in with roommates, says our elder. It’s a great first step towards independent living. …
Don’t bring her home, Dad!
I think my parents are divorcing and now my father has met someone else. Can I confront him? That’s not a great idea, says our elder. Find a sympathetic ear…