What to do when a friend controls every convo? Our elder says to be kind but honest. Here’s how. Dear EWC: I have been friends with this girl (and I…
When drugs come between friends
You thought you shared values but should you share drugs in the name of friendship? Our elder says absolutely not, and here’s why. Dear EWC: Hi, I’m a freshman in…
Too successful for friends?
I’m an overachiever but friendships are a challenge. Our elder suggests finding people who share your passions. And don’t forget to have a little fun! Dear EWC: Hello! I’m a…
Bridging the friendship gap
High school pals are moving on … I feel left behind. Our elder has a few ideas on how to reconnect with old friends and where to find new ones….
Doing all the running
My friends don’t want to hang out anymore. Is it Covid – or is it me? Have an honest conversation with them, says our elder. At least you’ll know you…
Ghosted by my best friend
I moved to a different state, and all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages. What should I do? Don’t take it personally, says our elder. Find…
My toxic ex friend said sorry
Should I respond? She hurt you, says our elder. You can respond without re-engaging. Dear EWC My ex-best friend and I weren’t speaking anymore. I was in a toxic friendship…
My ex best friend reached out…
… but only to add me as a Facebook friend. Should I message him? Only if you can handle possibly getting a disappointing response, says our elder. Some people are…
Should I do a porch concert?
I want to do a porch concert for my friend’s mom — but what if they say no? It’s a lovely idea, says our elder. Go for it! Dear EWC…
I’ve lost that friendship vibe
Quarantine was kind of a relief. Am I a bad friend? We’re all feeling a little off-kilter, says our elder. Talk to your friends and find out how they’re feeling….