Should I speak to her about it? I doubt very much that she hates you, says our elder. But you could pick a good moment to explain your concerns. Dear…
Did I ruin my college chances?
I did something bad at school — will it stop me getting into a good college? I can’t say for sure, says our elder. But we all make mistakes. Dear…
No part for a child star
I’ve been acting professionally for most of my life — so why didn’t I get a good part in my school play? You’re a professional, says our elder, so take…
Free car or my freedom?
Our elder advises a college student whose parents are happy to pay his rent, or buy him a car — but not both. The important thing is to stay in…
I lost my public speaking mojo
It used to be fun; now speaking in public makes me start shaking. How did this happen? You may never know why, says our elder. But there are things you…
What if I don’t get in?
There’s only one university I want to go to, and I’m scared for my mental health if they don’t accept me. How can I avoid the downward spiral? Our elder…
I missed choir due to migraines…
… and now my choir teacher feels like I let him down. Focus on the things you can change, says our elder, and have an honest conversation. Dear EWC My…
Burnt out from badminton
I love the camaraderie of badminton practice, but it makes me so tired! Should I carry on next year? Try talking to your coach, suggests our elder. You may find…
Will I get into grad school?
My friends and family say it won’t be the end of the world if I don’t get in — but I’m so stressed! You’ve done everything you can, says our…
I flunked a debate
Public speaking is not my favorite activity, but I didn’t expect to do this badly! Don’t worry, says our elder: Learn as much as you can from the experience and…