It’s not my fault I have no common sense, but my boyfriend gets frustrated. How can I get him to help me? First, says our elder, he needs to accept…
Quit school to be a babysitter?
My mom and her ex had a fight… and now I’m stuck babysitting my siblings. Should I give up school? They are not your responsibility, says our elder. Sit down…
I agreed to be a SAHM…
… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home before you had children, says our elder. But now you…
My new friend did blackface!
I thought he was kidding, but he wasn’t. Should I say something? It’s definitely time for a conversation, says our elder. This is a real teachable moment. Dear EWC I…
I’m scared of my violent bro
My younger brother is violent and malicious, but my parents say it’s just his hormones. How can I help them? You need to encourage them to make him see a…
Hubby cheated with trans women
I thought we had the perfect marriage… but then I found his WhatsApp messages. Should I stay with my cheater husband? You’ve had a shock, says our elder. Take time…
Should I tell my 30-year crush?
I’ve been in love with a woman in my town for over 30 years, but she’s happily married. Should I tell her how I feel? Our elder doesn’t think that…
Should I make a GoFundMe page?
I want to go to college without getting into debt… and my stepfather wants to kick me out! Could GoFundMe help? We applaud your efforts, say our elders. Can you…
My friends weren’t there for me
I managed to leave my toxic boyfriend but now I feel distant from my friends. Stop beating up on yourself, says our elder, and find someone you can talk to…
My family won’t visit!
They say they can’t afford it, but it makes me angry. Well, maybe they can’t, says our elder. Being angry is a waste of energy. Dear EWC I currently live…