How can I stand up to my emotionally abusive mom and stepdad? You can’t change them, says our elder, but you can overcome their parenting style. Set your own boundaries…
Ghosted by my best friend
I’ve tried everything but she still won’t speak to me. Try not to take it personally, says our elder. It will hurt for a while but it will fade over…
What happens when we die?
I can’t bear the thought of simply not existing. It’s very common to have a fear of dying, says our elder. Know that you are not alone, and work on…
A career in comics?
This letter writer is worried about their future since their only skill is drawing for comics. Our elder has some ideas on how to pursue a career as a visual…
Seek Friendships to Increase the Chances of Romance
Peter wrote in to Elder Wisdom Circle concerned about his ability to be in a relationship—primarily with a romantic partner but also in the sense of making friends. He tried…
A reluctant homecoming queen
I’ve been nominated for homecoming – but is it cheating on my boyfriend if I dance with the homecoming king? Not at all, says our elder. He’ll be proud of…
How can I overcome trauma?
After some painful events, this letter writer is looking for someone to talk to but she can’t afford therapy. Our elder has some suggestions on how to learn to trust…
I have feelings for another girl
Should I come clean to my girlfriend? Lose the whole “I don’t want to hurt her” shtick, says our elder. Tell her what you’re up to and take your lumps….
How to survive hard times
A letter writer is looking for advice on getting through the pandemic. Our elder shares his experience of his wife’s illness, and his tips for keeping busy during Covid. …
Tasks terrify me
A student gets so stressed about managing their time that they have a hard time breathing sometimes. Can our elder help them find their motivation? Dear EWC I have…