A summer course, honors classes and a failed driving test have a letter-writer feeling stressed. Can our elder help her put things in perspective? Dear EWC This is my…
My friend is a drain
She’s always crying about her problems. Is this a normal part of friendship? It does sound one-sided, says our elder. Maybe it’s time to have an honest conversation. Dear…
3 years, 3 schools. What now?
A letter writer is looking for direction, perhaps towards a bachelor’s degree. Some of your credits may be eligible for transfer, says our elder. Speaking to a counselor at college…
I’ve been working on myself…
… so can I win back my ex? She says she loves me but she’s not in love. This is a red flag, says our elder. Carry on your journey…
Should I come out to Mom?
She knows I’m bisexual, but not that I’m non-binary. Set aside some time and share your truth with her, says our elder. It’s at the core of who you are….
My selfish, nagging partner
He won’t even wear the smart watch I bought him for his birthday! He’s not making you happy, says our elder. It may be time to leave. Dear EWC…
I can’t hug my family
A letter-writer can’t show affection to his family because all they do is criticize. Our elder can empathize; her parents were like that too. Happiness is the best revenge, she…
Guess what, Mom – I’m an adult
Alcohol, a boyfriend and atheism: How do I tell my mom about my real life? Your mom was 19 once too, says our elder. Why not open up to her…
No friends at school
During quarantine, I realized that I don’t actually like my old ‘friends’, and school is unbearable. You’re not alone, says our elder. Talk to a counselor – and know that…
Lots of friends but still lonely
I’m popular at school, but I still feel that I can’t talk to anyone about my grief for my dad. It’s hard to open up, says our elder. But why…