When you invite people to lunch and all they do is drink coffee, is it normal to feel annoyed? Absolutely, agrees our elder. These people have no manners: Chow down…
I just want to hide in the stockroom
A letter writer worries that her managers want her out front just because she’s pretty. Can our elder convince her to step out of her comfort zone? Dear EWC…
How can I gain muscle?
A 15-year-old worries that his legs look thin and small. How can he get more confidence around girls? Our elder has some advice to help build muscle slowly—and safely. …
Is my friend still engaged?
There’s something missing from her latest Facebook post. Is there a tactful way to ask about it? Our elder helps a letter writer with a very modern etiquette question….
Ew! He smells… down there
After five months of dating, her boyfriend’s annoying habits are starting to get to her. Our elder thinks perhaps he’s not the one—could it be time to find a new…
Am I a backstabber?
A letter writer wants to know: is it OK to keep making out with her best friend’s ex? Well, she may not be a bad person, but she’s not…
Help! Everyone knows I watch porn
When you start a new school, the last thing you want is for everyone to know about your porn habit. Can our elder come up with some strategies to…
The downside of my famous dad
A teenager asks: Do I have to play basketball just because dad used to be a star? Talk to your parents, says our elder, and find an activity you love….
Help! I just spent $3,000 again
When you just went to Gucci but there’s no more space in your closet… Our elder has strong words for a 19-year-old with a serious spending problem. Dear…
Deciding Whether or Not to Have Kids
Deciding Whether or Not to Have Kids Original Letter I will be 30 this year and up until recently, I have always wanted kids… 2 or 3. I…