My boyfriend gave me a hickey and now everyone’s calling me a slut. Help! Put it out of your mind, says our elder. You’ll be amazed at how quickly the…
What is a full life anyway?
A high school junior wants to know. Good question, says our elder. Only you can figure out what will make you feel fulfilled. Dear EWC I am a junior…
Dating gives me panic attacks
Whenever my girlfriend wants to see me, I get so anxious I throw up. Your body is telling you something, says our elder. See a counselor to help find the…
Don’t be so Hard on Yourself!
Sophie wrote in to Elder Wisdom Circle struggling with deep feelings of inadequacy. She had just started going to the school of her dreams to pursue her ambition to become…
How can I stop being stuck?
A low-paid job and a boring routine leaves a letter writer broke and anxious. I’ve been through that too, says our elder. Stop thinking, and start getting active in your…
I can’t even cut my hair!
Negative future scenarios have left a letter writer struggling with procrastination. Our elder has strategy: vision plus passion plus action. Dear EWC I have had difficulty working and getting…
My bf’s too popular with girls
Other girls like my boyfriend way too much, and it’s making me anxious. This doesn’t sound like a good match, says our elder. Let him go gently. Dear EWC…
Do I have gender dysphasia?
I think I might but I’m scared to look into it. Accept your feelings as they are at this moment, says our elder. Counseling might be helpful if they are…
Is 50/50 finance still a thing?
How to handle finances between a man and a woman? Our elder could write 20 pages on this – but for now, it’s enough to know that there’s no ‘right’…
I lied about getting into Yale
Making a fake acceptance letter with Photoshop seemed like a good idea at the time… Can our elder help a student navigate his way out of his great big lie?…