Hope wrote into Elder Wisdom Circle distressed about a situation in her relationship. She confessed that she had cheated on her boyfriend only a few days after they started dating,…
My friends don’t care
I listen to them talk about their love lives but they never listen to me. Good listeners deserve to be heard too, says our elder. Here’s how you can change…
Fashion design or making money?
I have my heart set on majoring in fashion design but my mom says I should focus on a more stable profession. It’s not either/or, says our elder. You can…
Pregnant at 14
Should I keep the baby? Think about the welfare of the baby, says our elder. Talk to your parents about how they feel, and you might want to think about…
Tired of pretending to be happy
I feel like I’ve given up and now I just feel angry. How can I get back on my feet? I don’t have the answers, says our elder. But you…
How to manage Mom
A letter writer has a toxic relationship with her mother – something our elder can understand all too well. It won’t happen overnight, but it can get better. Dear…
Will I be happy in Hawaii?
Friends helped me get my old job back in Hawaii but now I’m not sure. Do I owe it to them to move back? This is one for the trusty…
Don’t call me Mom!
I was flirting with a YouTuber and then it all got awkward. How can I come out on top? You can’t, says our elder. Unsubscribe, forget this channel, and move…
Am I gender fluid?
This letter writer is questioning their gender identity and is unsure how their older relatives will react. Maintain your self-respect and explore your identity, says our elder. And be assured…
Polyamory or me?
My boyfriend is polyamorous. I’m monogamous. What should I do? He’s been honest with you, says our elder. If he won’t change his lifestyle, you may have to look for…