What happens when childhood trauma impacts your adult life? Our elder counsels that looking back may be painful, but it’s the first step to moving forward. Dear EWC: I’ve been…
I think I want kids…
The thought of getting pregnant has her confused, but why? Our elder helps sort out the many emotions of becoming a mom. Dear EWC: I want kids. At least I…
Am I enough?
This adoptee feels empty and rejected. You’re not alone, says our elder, and you deserve love. It’s OK to ask for it. Dear EWC: Hi, I’m 19 years old and…
The relationship test
Can I drive them away before they leave? That’s not the question to be asking yourself says our elder—if you want to avoid another failed relationship. Dear EWC: Every time…
COVID is keeping us apart
How to handle family visits when politics and a pandemic intervene? Our elder believes it begins with honesty and respect. Dear EWC: I’m sure I’m not the only parent/grandparent in…
Should they stay—or go?
This dad’s worried about travel during a pandemic. But is it wrong to keep the kids away from an ailing grandparent? Our elder offers various takes—and one deciding factor. Dear…
My awkward Valentine
When you’re “in like,” what are the rules of Valentine gifting? No rules, says our elder, but she offers a few fun ideas just in case. Dear EWC: There’s this…
Ready to tell all
Now that they’re in quarantine, this would-be couple is finally starting to chat. “Don’t push,” says our elder, who cautions against sharing too much, too soon. Dear EWC: Hello, to…
Living with his GF—and her parents!
Red flags abound in this crowded relationship. Our elder says it’s time to move out for SO many reasons. Dear EWC: Hello, I hope you are having a nice day….
Is he enough?
For this student, her boyfriend ranks high on the “no” list. Our elder suggests that if he doesn’t measure up, it’s time to let him go. Dear EWC: I am…