A letter-writer can’t show affection to his family because all they do is criticize. Our elder can empathize; her parents were like that too. Happiness is the best revenge, she…
Guess what, Mom – I’m an adult
Alcohol, a boyfriend and atheism: How do I tell my mom about my real life? Your mom was 19 once too, says our elder. Why not open up to her…
No friends at school
During quarantine, I realized that I don’t actually like my old ‘friends’, and school is unbearable. You’re not alone, says our elder. Talk to a counselor – and know that…
Lots of friends but still lonely
I’m popular at school, but I still feel that I can’t talk to anyone about my grief for my dad. It’s hard to open up, says our elder. But why…
No meds in the military
A letter-writer has just discovered that he can’t pursue his dream of joining the military because of his medication for OCD and anxiety. Can our elder help? Dear EWC…
My parents v my boyfriend
They don’t approve of him because we fight sometimes. Well, screaming at your boyfriend is not a great sign, says our elder. Maybe your mom has a point. Dear…
Do I contact my ex again?
He’s liking a lot of my posts on social media; is he thinking of me? I can’t answer that, says our elder. But I would advise you to back off…
It’s over – or is it?
This husband can’t work out whether or not his wife really wants to separate. Right now, you’re letting her make all the decisions, says our elder. It’s time to take…
How can I let the words flow?
It shouldn’t be this hard to open my mouth. Our elder has some tips on speaking up for an introvert who wants to stop holding back. Q. Dear EWC…
Hey Mom and Dad, about that D…
A student is heading for a D in Chemistry and worries that her parents will confiscate her things when they find out. Try not to assume the worst, says our…