A 15-year-old worries that his legs look thin and small. How can he get more confidence around girls? Our elder has some advice to help build muscle slowly—and safely. …
Is my friend still engaged?
There’s something missing from her latest Facebook post. Is there a tactful way to ask about it? Our elder helps a letter writer with a very modern etiquette question….
Ew! He smells… down there
After five months of dating, her boyfriend’s annoying habits are starting to get to her. Our elder thinks perhaps he’s not the one—could it be time to find a new…
Am I a backstabber?
A letter writer wants to know: is it OK to keep making out with her best friend’s ex? Well, she may not be a bad person, but she’s not…
Help! Everyone knows I watch porn
When you start a new school, the last thing you want is for everyone to know about your porn habit. Can our elder come up with some strategies to…
The downside of my famous dad
A teenager asks: Do I have to play basketball just because dad used to be a star? Talk to your parents, says our elder, and find an activity you love….
Help! I just spent $3,000 again
When you just went to Gucci but there’s no more space in your closet… Our elder has strong words for a 19-year-old with a serious spending problem. Dear…
Deciding Whether or Not to Have Kids
Deciding Whether or Not to Have Kids Original Letter I will be 30 this year and up until recently, I have always wanted kids… 2 or 3. I…
Broken Marriage, Broken Dreams
Broken Marriage, Broken Dreams Original Letter Hello, I just need someone to talk to about my current situation. Everyone woman that knows me (friends, family, co workers) and…
How Can I Motivate Students Who Do Not Seem To Care?
How Can I Motivate Students Who Do Not Seem To Care? Original Letter I’m a senior, and I’m working with a teacher and 4 other seniors to help…