A letter writer harassed his co-workers at an office party—but he was so drunk he doesn’t remember. Don’t worry, says our elder; the humiliation will fade over time. Dear EWC…
Should I stay or should I go?
My partner needs me overseas; my adult son needs me here. How can I be with both of them at the same time? It’s a tough one, says our elder….
Should I buy a baby gift?
My friend’s daughter needs help—but is she taking us all for a ride? It’s always best to err on the side of generosity, counsels our elder. Dear EWC A church…
Neglected after kidney transplant
A letter writer is feeling shut out after her boyfriend’s kidney transplant. Is a cuddle too much to ask for? Be patient with your patient, says our elder. Dear EWC…
The new guy called me a slut
There’s a new boy in her friendship group and he’s straight-up rude and offensive. Our elder has some advice on how to stop the body-shaming. Dear EWC Hi! I am…
Ghosted by my BF
And now she’s branded me a fake! A letter writer wonders what she did wrong; our elder warns that she may never find out, but has some tips on how…
Father-in-law won’t take the hint
Her needy father-in-law is seriously cramping their style. Our elder has some tips on helping him to get out of the house. Dear EWC My husband and I have been…
Not in Kansas any more
I want to go to college out of state but I know my mom will be sad. Do I have to stay in Kansas? Our elder has some helpful advice…
Help me fly the nest!
What’s stopping me leaving home? Our elder helps a letter writer move past his emotional blocks and make a moving-out plan. Dear EWC I am still in California and living…
Help! All my friends are stoners
A letter writer wants to ditch the weed and move on with her life. Our elder has some suggestions. Dear EWC Hello! I am very lost and need some advice….