A letter-writer has just discovered that he can’t pursue his dream of joining the military because of his medication for OCD and anxiety. Can our elder help? Dear EWC…
My parents v my boyfriend
They don’t approve of him because we fight sometimes. Well, screaming at your boyfriend is not a great sign, says our elder. Maybe your mom has a point. Dear…
Do I contact my ex again?
He’s liking a lot of my posts on social media; is he thinking of me? I can’t answer that, says our elder. But I would advise you to back off…
It’s over – or is it?
This husband can’t work out whether or not his wife really wants to separate. Right now, you’re letting her make all the decisions, says our elder. It’s time to take…
Hey Mom and Dad, about that D…
A student is heading for a D in Chemistry and worries that her parents will confiscate her things when they find out. Try not to assume the worst, says our…
I’m insecure; he’s not helping
My boyfriend knows that my ex cheated on me, but he doesn’t understand my insecurity. Work on your communication, says our elder – and focus on the present, not the…
Is my school too expensive?
This student feels guilty for studying at an expensive college when her parents would like her to transfer. Think carefully, says our elder. You’re working hard, and a better college…
Overwhelmed by expectations
How to balance your responsibilities and stay optimistic when everyone expects the impossible? Set your own goals, says our elder. Be the best ‘you’ that you can be. Q….
Drowning in a whirlpool
A husband fights with his wife about once a year; he’s miserable but doesn’t believe in divorce. There is a way out, says our elder. You could try a legal…
How do I end my sadness?
A letter writer is experiencing random, unprovoked sadness. It’s a normal, human emotion, says our elder. Here are some things you can do to help – and please speak to…