I live with my girlfriend and her parents. We can’t get married for another four years, and she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage. Can I hold out that long?…
Polyamory problems
It was all going so well until I started falling for the ‘other’ guy. Then my husband got mad. Maybe he’s shown you what you’re missing in your marriage, suggests…
Is 18 too young to get married?
My family have threatened to abandon me if I walk down the aisle before I graduate! Well it is a bit young, says our elder. Can you give it another…
Will I end up in debt like Mom?
My husband is tired of me saying no — but I’m worried about our finances and scared I’ll end up like my mom. Our elder recommends setting a budget, and…
I need my husband by my side…
… All. The. Time. I know it annoys him, but I hate it when he wants to go out. Our elder suspects the letter writer’s new baby has a lot…
My wife hates my leggings!
I like wearing leggings, but my wife says they make me look like a crossdresser. Maybe save them for the gym, says our elder — if only in the interests…
My mean stepdaughter
Next time my stepdaughter comes to stay, I want to escape to a hotel. Am I being unreasonable? Not at all, says our elder. Stay out of her way, and…
Husband wants to change gender
I support him — but what do I tell my children, asks a letter writer. Our elder admires her attitude and has some advice on how to start the conversation….
It’s Mom v football
I promised my mom I’d help her install a carpet, but it clashes with my son’s football game. Now my wife isn’t talking to me! Am I wrong? Not at…
Do I want to stay in this hell?
My husband won’t work on our marriage, but I don’t want to leave him. It doesn’t sound like much of a marriage to me, says our elder. Dear EWC My…