A letter writer doesn’t share many interests with the man she is dating, but she feels mean breaking it off. Can our elder help? Dear EWC A friend I have…
I can give it all up except weed
Our elder has some support and encouragement for a 15-year-old letter writer who is affected by illegal drugs. Dear EWC I’m 15 years old and have tried so many illegal…
As if summer never happened
Why does eighth grade feel just the same as seventh grade? A letter writer craves change at school; our elder encourages him to be the change. Dear EWC Hello! I…
BF keeps Snapchatting my crush
It was funny the first time but now it’s a drag. How can I stop my friend responding for me? Keep your phone away from her for a start, says…
Help! I bombarded my camp crush
When you meet someone at camp and send him way too many messages, things can get awkward. Don’t apologize, says our elder, and hold your head high. Dear EWC So,…
I was that person at office bash
A letter writer harassed his co-workers at an office party—but he was so drunk he doesn’t remember. Don’t worry, says our elder; the humiliation will fade over time. Dear EWC…
Should I stay or should I go?
My partner needs me overseas; my adult son needs me here. How can I be with both of them at the same time? It’s a tough one, says our elder….
Should I buy a baby gift?
My friend’s daughter needs help—but is she taking us all for a ride? It’s always best to err on the side of generosity, counsels our elder. Dear EWC A church…
Neglected after kidney transplant
A letter writer is feeling shut out after her boyfriend’s kidney transplant. Is a cuddle too much to ask for? Be patient with your patient, says our elder. Dear EWC…
The new guy called me a slut
There’s a new boy in her friendship group and he’s straight-up rude and offensive. Our elder has some advice on how to stop the body-shaming. Dear EWC Hi! I am…